Talk To Yourself Like You’re A Three Year Old

Optimism is a choice you make every single day. 

But even on the days when it’s hard to see the bright side of things, you can choose to be kind to yourself. 

And that starts with your words. 

The easiest way to do this is to talk to yourself like you’re a three year old. 

When you break a dish: “That’s okay sweetie. Let’s clean it up. Mistakes happen.”

When you feel like you’ve failed: “You tried your hardest and we’re going to keep trying until we figure it out.”

When you’re feeling sad: “Take the time to process. You don’t have to rush to feeling better.”

Being human is hard and we live in our heads all day. 

Make it a safe and loving space. 

Something to ponder:

Finish this sentence: One thing I like about myself is ________. 

Keep adding to the list until you’ve exhausted everything you can think of.

Dealing with tomorrow one day at a time

How do you fuel the highest version of yourself?

It starts with food of course.

And maybe meditation

Or journaling.

For some it’s running or cycle or yoga.

There are coloring books

Making things

Conversations with God

Reading books

Studying philosophy.

It often involves therapy

And walks in nature.

Sitting by water

Feeling sand between your toes. 

Taking meds
Hot showers or long baths

Long talks with old friends

Sometimes making new friends.

Going on dates 

Falling in love 

Falling out of love

Learning to love yourself more.

Letting go

Moving forward 

Moving on 

Changing

Growing 

Forgiving

If not all of these, at least some…

Over and over again.

A journal prompt:

Create your own list by finishing this statement:
When I’m at my best, I am…

Ask Me Anything About Being a Creative Director

Okay, so you’re creative. And you can direct stuff? You should definitely be a creative director. I got some questions on my Instagram and realized that yall are so curious about my creative career, so in today’s video I’m going to answer all your questions about being a creative director. 

What does a creative director do? 

Primarily a creative director is responsible for developing the creative vision for a project based on client goals and budget. This usually includes pitching concepts and working with the creative team to execute that vision. 

It’s a lot more left-brain thinking than I think most people imagine. 

It’s managing budgets, building timelines, sourcing freelancers, and managing cross-departmental relationships. 

Then there’s reviewing the work of your team, investing in their growth, and creating a great place for them to work. 

What skills do you need to be a good creative director? 

There are different needs based on the internal and external function of the job. 

So externally, you’re working with clients in a service-based role. So you need to be a good public speaker so you can clearly present concepts to clients in a way that convinces them to buy. 

You have to be quick on your feet because you will get any number of questions from a variety of different directions.

And you need to be confident and willing to push back when necessary. This is a balancing act because while you should be an expert in your field, your client should also be an expert in their specific business or industry. 

Internally, you have to have the core creative skills necessary for the company you work for. 

This can vary, but in working for digital marketing agencies, I need a deep understanding of copywriting, graphic design, short form and long-form content creation, digital advertising best practices primarily for google and social ads, UI and UX design primarily for landing page creation. 

And then you need interpersonal skills to make the relationships work at your company. For example, you have your core creative team. These would be your immediate bosses you’re trying to impress. And then you have the team members you’re managing. You’re trying to help them make the best work possible and set them up for success in getting the career growth that they want to be successful. 

But then you also are working with other teams and department heads. In my experience, I worked closely with incredible account executives, project managers, strategists, paid media managers, and digital experience designers. And there’s so much give and take because every team is integral to the success of the project. So you’re negotiating timelines. 

What was your path to becoming a creative director? 

So we’ll start with the professional path and then we’ll talk through the side hustles. 

I started as a web designer at a small agency. It was teeny tiny (like 5 employees), so I was doing some account management, as well as building sites and doing graphic design. 

Then I worked at a large agency as a graphic designer. This was a more traditional regional agency with about 200 employees, so I had the opportunity to work on a few TV commercials, branding projects, and lots of print work. 

I took a sharp left and went to get my master’s degree in arts administration because I wanted to open my own art gallery…that did not work out… So I worked at a museum and then at an arts high school for 3 years as a communications manager. 

The value of going back to school was that I learned a lot about Marketing and Business and it stoked my desire to start my own company. 

So I launched a design studio and did branding, web design, and marketing services. I ran that business for 3 years and this was where I learned how to manage freelancers and interns. This was pivotal in me gaining confidence as a leader and prepared me to officially use the title Creative Director. 

My next job was as a creative director for a digital agency that primarily focused on online advertising and social media management. About 20 employees. And this was my opportunity to really learn how to be an empathetic leader. At this company, I cultivated the skill of genuinely investing in my team and their growth and learned how to navigate just about any creative problem that pops up. 

Then I moved to Austin and worked for a digital marketing agency that had been recently acquired by a larger consulting firm. There were hundreds of employees globally, but probably 100 people in our office. This was the agency that taught me how to do design thinking workshops and just vastly increased my capacity for meaningful presentation design and incredible storytelling. 

Worth noting, along the way I had a variety of side hustles that helped me to gain other professional experience. 

I almost always was doing some sort of web and graphic design freelancing for almost all of my career. 

I also created a local publication for millennials about the city of New Orleans. I ran that for 6 years and published 4 print issues and a few books.

I co-founded a conference for creators and was responsible for curating the experience and speakers and doing digital marketing to promote the event. 

And I launched a weekly newsletter that I still run today. It’s called SoCurious and its a weekly pep talk and thoughtful recommendations that you should subscribe to. 

I’m going to make a whole video about how side hustles changed my life, but that’s the general overview. 

What’s your favorite part of being a creative director? 

I love presenting. Its nerve-racking, but I genuinely just love the process of taking a loose idea and turning it into something meaningful that connects with the hearts and minds of people. 

That’s really what advertising is. Creative storytelling with a specific goal in mind.  

What your least favorite part?

Working at an ad agency is so hectic. You’re usually managing 3-4 clients at any given moment, so your focus is always split between a lot of different priorities. While I love a little chaos, I also like the opportunity to deeply reflect and have time to process. Its a fast-paced environment so there’s not always the opportunity to slow down and think. 

What is it like being a black man in the agency world? 

It’s interesting to be honest.. working in the agency world as a black, gay man. It has its ups and it has its downs. 

Generally speaking, most of the large agencies I worked for had very few people black people working in the creative department, which can be challenging. For me, it often showed up in the references that people share. Someone on the team will make a joke about something and I just won’t get it because I haven’t seen that movie or watched that show. 

And often times it would feel like I was the only person that didn’t get the reference which could be super awkward. 

I made it my personal mission to connect with the other people of color at the agency and made sure to join the affinity groups and attend the meetings. These created a safe space to chat through issues and get a second opinion on the subtle and not-so-subtle microaggressions. Because even the most liberal-minded employers occasionally will say and do things that make you feel uncomfortable. 

And every once in a while you will deal with clients that don’t want to work with you because they don’t expect someone that looks like you to be in this position. 

For me, that pushback was fuel. I focused a lot of my attention on becoming smarter, faster, and more kind. I also made sure that everything I presented was well-researched and thoughtful. It’s hard because we live in an imperfect world. But in order to make it, especially as a person of color you have to be great to even make it in the door. 

How do I get my feet in the door? 

The best advice I have for someone that wants to become a creative director is to become an expert at either art direction or copywriting. And once you’ve mastered one, you need to refine your taste in the other so you can give great feedback to your team. 

Coming from a design background, I focused a lot of attention on learning how to tell better stories and specifically how to write incredible headlines. This was a meaningful way to differentiate myself because I could take ideas from my team members and build on them. This inspires confidence in your capacity to review your team’s work

Outside of mastering art direction and copywriting, you also have to cultivate other skills. Mentor junior employees, take continuing education classes that are focused on business and marketing, and learn to confidently present. These skills are really the most necessary thing to growing into the role of a Creative Director. 

Real Talk: You Deserve Peace

We are all so multi-dimensional.

a combination of our good days and bad days.

our successes and our failures.

our happiest moments and our saddest times

I think the goal of mental wellness and self-care is walking the journey of becoming a better you.

a more fulfilled self

a more loving and kind version of you.

still complicated, of course,

but a little more at peace.

This week’s challenge: 

Write a letter to your future self. Say something kind. Say something encouraging. And remind yourself of something you’re learning right now that will benefit future you. 

Side Hustle Ideas for Creative People

These side hustle ideas for creative people (writers, artists, and content creators) could help you earn $1000 per month from home.

Life is increasingly becoming more and more expensive and it never hurts to have multiple sources of income. But it can be hard to come up with a revenue stream that works for your personality type. So I’ve curated a list of side hustle ideas tailor-made for creative people. 

According to Zapier one in three Americans has a side hustle. Here are a few reasons why you might need to make a little extra money:

  • To pay off debt 
  • To build a nest egg 
  • To stay at home with children 
  • To diversify your income streams 
  • To prepare for a move 
  • To save for a down payment on a car or house 
  • To plan a vacation 
  • To support a family member 

But regardless of your reason, who wouldn’t want to make an extra $1000 a month? 

In this article, we’ll explore a variety of ways for creative people to earn a little extra money with side hustles separated into three groups: writers, artists, and content creators. 

Best Side Hustle Ideas For Writers

Best side hustle ideas for writers 

Become a freelance writer

Whether it’s writing articles for news sites or doing copywriting for landing pages, there are a variety of ways for freelance writers to make money online. Sites like Upwork and Fiverr have created marketplaces where businesses can connect with you to do project-based work.   

Start an email newsletter

Newsletters are the best touchpoint for connecting with an audience. Instead of needing to connect with your audience with social media, you can build a trusting relationship with your audience in more personal ways. 

Make revenue from your newsletter with: 

  • Sponsored Ads 
  • Paid newsletters 
  • Online Courses 
  • Coaching and Consulting 

Self-publish a book 

Both nonfiction and fiction books are lucrative ways to use your skills as a writer to make additional income. After writing your book, you can self-publish it through platforms like Amazon’s Kindle Digital Publishing and sell it via the Amazon store directly to your audience. 

Become a proofreader 

For people obsessed with grammar and great attention to detail, proofreading is an excellent way to make money. Most online businesses are creating lots of content and that content needs to be thoroughly reviewed before it goes up on sites. 

Write and edit resumes 

With the economy changing so much, it’s a useful skill to know how to write and edit resumes. Sometimes the easiest way to make money is to help other people make money. Learn the best practices in helping people pivot to new careers and you could build a lucrative side hustle. 

Best Side Hustle Ideas For Artist

Best Side Hustle Ideas for Artists

Sell printables and digital downloads

Printables and digital downloads are an effective way to make additional revenue without the headache of managing physical merchandise. Making and selling downloadable art prints, workbooks, and other digital downloads could become a lucrative side hustle with a little upfront work and the right audience.  

Sell your crafts and artwork 

If you regularly make physical art objects, you can sell them online to your customers with a Shopify website or Etsy store. 

Use a print-on-demand service

The easiest way to test a concept is to put your artwork on products with a print-on-demand service. With no upfront costs, you can quickly learn what ideas sell the best with your customers and don’t have the headache of finding manufacturers or the upfront costs of production, storage, and shipping. Items usually include art prints, mugs, and t-shirts.

Self-publish a coloring book 

For illustrators that want to make extra money, you can self-publish your own coloring book with Amazon’s Kindle Print on Demand. All you need to do is define an audience and create compelling artwork that connects with that group of people. 

Best Side Hustle Ideas For Content Creators

Best side hustle ideas for content creators 

Start a Youtube Channel 

Youtube continues to be one of the best ways for creative people to make additional income online. With a dedicated schedule of content creation, you can build revenue from Youtube’s ad network. As you continue to grow you can also find your own sponsors and sell products, courses, and digital downloads. 

Sell an online course

Online courses are the best way to take the knowledge you’ve gained to support the growth of someone else. You can sell your own online courses on a platform like Teachable or Podia. Or you can sell your courses through a marketplace like Udemy. 

Sell creative services for other businesses 

If being behind the scenes is more your speed there are a variety of ways for content creators to start a side hustle. Some ideas include: 

  • Editing videos for Youtube or social media 
  • Doing graphic design services 
  • Designing and building websites
  • Designing and selling templates 
  • Doing freelance photography 
  • Creating content for small businesses 
  • Run social ads for people 

Launch a Patreon account 

If you already regularly make content, one interesting way to monetize your audience is to launch a Patreon account. Patreon allows people that love your work to pay you monthly for access to behind-the-scenes or other special content. 

Start a blog or a podcast 

While it might feel like blogging and podcasts are saturated markets, there’s always room for you to create consistent content and build a following. Blogs and podcasts with a large enough following can sell ads, sponsorship, and affiliate marketing. They also can be great ways to promote your own courses and products. 

Become an Influencer

Building an audience online can be hard, but once you’ve built your social following, you can monetize your social platform with sponsorship from other brands that align with your lifestyle. 

Sell online coaching and consulting

If you have specific expertise and love connecting with people and businesses one on one, one lucrative way to make additional income is to sell online coaching and consulting. Coaches meet one on one or in small groups with people to help them to achieve business or personal goals. Consulting is the process of working with a business to achieve a specific business goal using your knowledge. 

Become a virtual assistant 

With so many small businesses online, you can make consistent revenue as a virtual assistant. Virtual assistants provide administrative support on a part-time basis, executing tasks like research, checking emails, booking flights, data entry, and light graphic design. 

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