Growing up, I was taught that boys don’t cry. So I swallowed my feelings. Bit my tongue. Made myself the safe space for everyone else, but never for myself. Because I saw the pain behind the masks people wear. And I wanted to fix it. I wanted to be the person they...
reconnection isn’t dead.
Reconnection isn’t dead. I know it feels like it sometimes. Because we’re more likely to send heart emojis than handwritten notes. Because it’s easier to swap voice memos than carve out time for a real conversation. Because everyone is too busy to schedule a meetup...
Life is hard, so I made some inspirational memes.
Feel free to steal them for your socials—just tag @socurious.co so I don’t cry. 😌🙏
you’re not stuck. you’re buffering
Dreams don't fade. They wait. But the moment you step into your truest path, fear shows up—new, sharp, insistent. It calls you back to who you've always been. Feel it. Honor it. But don’t let it hold you back. Fear isn't a stop sign. It's a compass,...
Here’s the inspiration you didn’t know you needed.
the fight isn’t over
The fight isn’t over. The world is still heavy. The work is still demanding. But in the middle of it all, we survive by refusing to let it steal our joy. If committing to your own joy and healing is selfish—then be f*cking selfish. It’s necessary....
maybe you just need a reset
Most people don’t need a new life. They just need a reset. A chance to step back.To see the patterns.To break the ones that aren’t working. But here’s the problem: Life doesn’t come with a reset button. So I made one. It’s called The Reset Workbook—a...
Here’s the inspiration you didn’t know you needed.
freshly cleaned vacuum
This morning, I cleaned out my vacuum. (Stay with me—I promise this is going somewhere.) I opened it up, and gross. It was full—dust, hair, all the little things that had been quietly piling up. It was doing its job, collecting everything in its path, never...
10 Things I’m Doing Right Now That Aren’t Doomscrolling
📖 Reading The Life Impossible by Matt Haig. It’s the kind of book that feels like a deep breath—perfect for shaking off the noise and remembering who you are. 💡 Brainstorming wild business ideas that sound ridiculous… until they actually...
How to find your creative voice
For years, I felt stuck—like I had ideas but no clear creative voice. Sound familiar? Then I cracked the code and developed a simple framework that changed everything. Your creative career isn’t broken; it just needs a reset. I spent seven years as a creative director...
Small Business Diaries: My 2025 Goals as a Creative Entrepreneur
I spent years building my creative career, and then… poof. Everything fell apart. So, I did what any rational person would do—I completely started over. New business, new mindset, new… everything. This video is a deep dive into what happened, what I’ve...
Reclaiming my fury
One of the greatest gifts of my healing journey is reclaiming my fury. Joy doesn’t erase other emotions—it coexists with them. It’s not a denial of the realities of anger, sadness, or fear. But a reminder that you can experience the full spectrum of emotions and still...
joy is a form of resistance
Good morning sunshine, I used to think the opposite of fear was love. So I lived my life with so much love.I gave it freely and earnestly.I loved my neighbor.I treated them with kindness. But some people will always hate me—because I’m Black,because I’m gay,because I...
the new greeting card bundle
You: sending the cutest card. Them: crying happy tears. Win-win. Your most-loved designs are now bundled together—6 for $25 (yep, that’s $5 in savings). Spread joy, kindness, and connection with cards that speak from the heart. Because a handwritten note lasts...
sometimes you can just let things be.
Sometimes, you can just let things be.You don’t need to push for answers.You don’t need to create the perfect moment.Just let it all unfold, as it’s meant to. You can't know what they’re thinking.You can’t know what you’re being spared from.And there’s so much beyond...
This is your moment
I know it feels heavy right now. the world. your dreams. that gap between where you are and where you want to be. But here's the thing: every great story has its struggles. Every hero faces doubts, fears, and moments where the path seems...
How to improve your life with small daily habit changes
In this video, I’m sharing how small, consistent habits can lead to sustainable change and transform your life. Whether you're looking to lose weight, build healthier habits, or start a journey of personal transformation, the key isn't in massive overhauls—it's in the...