I quit my toxic corporate job to launch a purpose-driven business that spreads joy
“I’m smart. I’m talented. I’m kind. And I’ve earned the respect of everyone I work with in every department. Clients love me. I’m producing interesting work that pushes the boundaries of what we can do here. But I’m also unhappy—unbelievably unhappy.”
It was a final desperate plea to the president of the company I absolutely did not want to quit.
I was living my dream. A creative director making video content for nonprofits and government agencies that creates positive change in the world, instead of selling products.
But the most meaningful change was being ignored.This company, I realized, was not just a bad place to work– it was toxic.
read more…This affirmation will help you manage your perfectionism
THIS WEEK’S MANTRA
Repeat after me: Fear won’t stop this progress
You are stronger than any obstacle that comes your way. Each step you take brings you closer to your true self. Embrace every part of your journey with confidence and courage.
if you struggle with perfectionism, this might help
If perfectionism is sabotaging your creative career goals, try this:
- Accept that perfection is an illusion. The only way to get good at something is to put in the work.
- Make things regularly, because that’s how you find your creative voice.
- Have the courage to share your work often, as feedback is essential for improvement.
- Trust that a commitment to dedicated, deliberate action will eventually pay off—the universe rewards consistency.
Congratulations, you’ve just leveled up!
PS. If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain about your career path, know that you’re not alone.
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These 5 journal prompts could help you see yourself with kinder eyes.
1. What imperfections do you see in yourself that you often try to hide?
2. How have these imperfections shaped your journey or influenced your growth?
3. Recall a moment when someone appreciated a part of you that you considered imperfect. How did that make you feel?
4. In what ways can you embrace and celebrate your imperfections as unique strengths?
5. How can you start showing up more authentically in your daily life, letting your true self shine through?
Striving for Perfection Is Overrated. Here’s How Embracing Imperfection Can Lead to Success
Good morning, sunshine,
We often strive for perfection, thinking that it’s the ultimate goal, but in reality, it’s the imperfections that give life its meaning.
In middle school, I started feeling self-conscious about my smile. The gaps between my teeth became a constant source of frustration, and without the option of braces, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong with me.
Growing up in Memphis, where roasting each other was practically a sport, didn’t help either. By the time I got to high school, I’d mastered the art of keeping my emotions in check, all in an effort not to draw attention to myself.
Then, one random Wednesday, as I was leaving DECA club, my teacher ( I hate that I can’t remember her name) stopped me and said, “Justin, you have a beautiful smile, and the world needs to see more of it.”
That tiny pep talk gave me the courage to start showing up as my authentic self—to share my warmth through these big ol’ pearly whites.
Think about it: what would life be like if everything were flawless? A world where every conversation was perfectly scripted, every meal plated with precision, and every moment predictable.
It might sound appealing at first, but quickly, we’d realize how dull and lifeless that would be. Perfection leaves no room for surprise, for growth, or for the unexpected joys that make life worth living.
Imperfection is what makes us human. It’s what connects us to each other, allowing us to empathize and understand that we all have our own unique struggles and triumphs.
That crooked smile I hope you love? It’s a reminder that nobody is perfect, and that’s okay. It’s the little flaws and quirks that make us who we are and make the people we love unforgettable.
In your creative journey, these imperfections are not something to be hidden or fixed—they’re your signature.
They’re the marks that tell the world you were here, that you took a risk, that you tried something new.
Each brushstroke that doesn’t quite land, each note that goes a little off-key, each idea that doesn’t fully take flight—they’re all part of the process, part of the story you’re telling.
So, instead of striving for an impossible standard of perfection, lean into the messiness of creativity.
Make mistakes, take detours, and embrace the unexpected.
Share your work even when it feels rough around the edges because that’s where the magic happens.
That’s where you find your voice and connect with others in a way that polished perfection never could.
Remember, life isn’t about having everything figured out or getting it all right the first time. It’s about showing up, doing the work, and letting your unique, imperfect self shine through.
There’s a beauty in that—a beauty that perfection can never match.
Wishing you a beautifully imperfect day,
Justin