5 Things I’m Learning Living on This Chaotic Planet
1. Control is an illusion.
No matter how much we plan, the universe always throws curveballs. The key isn’t to control everything—it’s to adapt and flow with the chaos. Let go a little, it’s oddly liberating.
2. Smiling through the madness helps.
Sometimes everything feels like it’s on fire, but a smile, even a forced one, can shift the energy. It doesn’t fix the chaos, but it lightens the load and gives you a second to breathe.
3. Perfection is overrated.
Progress beats perfection every time. Besides, the messy parts are where the real magic happens.
4. Uncertainty is a daily companion.
You never truly know what’s coming next. Instead of fearing it, I’m learning to embrace the unpredictability. Maybe the unknown isn’t something to dread, but an invitation to discover something new.
5. Small wins matter.
When life feels like a whirlwind, the little victories—like getting out of bed or remembering to drink water—deserve to be celebrated. They’re proof that, even in chaos, we’re still moving forward.
It’s a wild ride, but the more I lean into the chaos, the more I realize it’s where growth, joy, and the unexpected brilliance of life can be found.
If you need help managing the chaos, I think The Reset Workbook could help.
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when intuition speaks
Something to ponder: What is one thing you’ve been waiting to do? What’s stopping you from taking action now?
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you always have permission to pivot
Every day, you get to choose who you want to become. I’ve said it before—change is tough.
But it’s only tough because you have to keep showing up, day after day, as the person you’re aiming to be.
But here’s the good news: I believe in you so wholeheartedly. Keep growing.