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so I’m kinda ridiculous… but here’s the plan

so I’m kinda ridiculous… but here’s the plan

What is SoCurious? SoCurious is a people-powered media company.We make content, products, and experiences that help you feel more human. Kinda like if PBS had been created by a mashup of Mr. Rogers and Basquiat instead of a group of white dudes. Why are you building...

Joy is a choice you make every day.

Joy is a choice you make every day.

Joy is a choice you make every day. It’s the deep breaths that recenter you after a long day. The playlist that keep you dancing while cleaning the bathroom. The five minutes of sun on your face between meetings. The meme your best friend sends just when you...

3 things bringing me joy this week

3 things bringing me joy this week

1. Put the mic back in my hand.After way too long, in-person speaking gigs are back! Saturday, I gave my first Joy is the Revolution talk at Black Art Weekend in Austin. Then Tuesday, I spoke to the Bootstrap Biz crew virtually about adding joy to your small...

the scariest moment of my adult life.

the scariest moment of my adult life.

On Friday, June 20th, I deposited $4,800 into my bank account. I felt… calm. Secure. Like I could finally exhale. I even went to the store and bought the good lotion. (EOS Shea Butter, if you’re curious.) That weekend felt like a small vacation. For the first...

you’re allowed to evolve

you’re allowed to evolve

Today is your reminder: you’re allowed to evolve. You’re not bound to one path, one pace, or one version of yourself. You can shift direction. Slow down. Leap forward. Because none of it means you’ve failed. Every experiment—even the messy ones—brings you closer to...

you don’t have to do it all alone.

you don’t have to do it all alone.

You don’t have to figure it out alone. Maybe you’ve been circling the same idea for months. Maybe your voice feels muted and you’re tired of second-guessing yourself. Or maybe you know you’re ready for the next chapter, but can’t quite see the map. For the next week,...

5 things that brought me joy this week

5 things that brought me joy this week

This week has been good. Like actually good. But also… whew. I’m tired. So instead of a deep message, I’m just gonna tell you five little things that brought me joy: 1. A long phone call with my Aunt Shirley. It’s been decades since we had real one-on-one...

i believe in all those dreams you’ve been hiding

i believe in all those dreams you’ve been hiding

Going after your big dreams is scary. Even the small steps can feel overwhelming. Sometimes, what you need isn’t another strategy—it’s someone who believes in you, nudging you forward. That’s why I created Launch Your Damn Newsletter Already. Because I know the power...

I almost didn’t launch this workshop.

I almost didn’t launch this workshop.

I almost didn’t launch this workshop. Because honestly? Most online courses suck. Not because learning online is broken—but because too many people are teaching things they’ve never actually done. This one’s different. I’ve been writing my newsletter, Good...

my definition of love changed… for the better

my definition of love changed… for the better

I used to think love meant losing yourself in someone else. Now I know—real love brings you home to yourself, again and again. This past year taught me lessons I didn’t know I needed.Grief cracked me wide open. But on the other side of sorrow, I found a deeper...

i got cast on a reality show…again

i got cast on a reality show…again

It’s funny how life works. Sometimes the universe gives you a soft whisper.Other times… you get cast on a reality show. Yep, you read that right. Earlier this year, I was cast on a reality show for entrepreneurs.It’s called The Blox. Kind of like Shark...

growing up, i was taught boys don’t cry

growing up, i was taught boys don’t cry

Growing up, I was taught that boys don’t cry. So I swallowed my feelings. Bit my tongue. Made myself the safe space for everyone else, but never for myself. Because I saw the pain behind the masks people wear. And I wanted to fix it. I wanted to be the person they...

reconnection isn’t dead.

reconnection isn’t dead.

Reconnection isn’t dead. I know it feels like it sometimes. Because we’re more likely to send heart emojis than handwritten notes. Because it’s easier to swap voice memos than carve out time for a real conversation. Because everyone is too busy to schedule a meetup...

you’re not stuck. you’re buffering

you’re not stuck. you’re buffering

Dreams don't fade. They wait.  But the moment you step into your truest path, fear shows up—new, sharp, insistent. It calls you back to who you've always been. Feel it. Honor it.  But don’t let it hold you back.  Fear isn't a stop sign. It's a compass,...