How to set healthy personal boundaries

How to set healthy personal boundaries

We have the individual responsibility to teach people how to treat us. Setting and sticking to your personal boundaries is a necessary skill to build meaningful, healthy relationships. But it’s also hard.  Many of us were taught that we should be nice at the expense...

Link Love #008

Link Love #008

A life update: Mercury is out of retrograde. So now you can start blaming yourself when things go wrong. J/k we can always blame the stars.  Beginner level exercises are the new niche for fitness I’m feeling philosophical these days.   This article explains the...

Closure doesn’t come from external sources

Closure doesn’t come from external sources

Just because you carry heavy burdens with grace, kindness, and a loving spirit, doesn’t mean you have to hold on to that extra weight. You have permission to let it go. You have permission to give yourself a break. That might mean having a difficult conversation. But...

You can go easier on yourself right now

You can go easier on yourself right now

There’s so much darkness in the world.And we see it on the news,We scroll past it in our social feeds,We talk about it in our group chats. But humanity is not all bad.There is pain, sadness, and destruction.And also there is good. There is love.There are people that...

How to Fix Your Feelings and Regulate Your Emotions

How to Fix Your Feelings and Regulate Your Emotions

Your feelings are valid. You should take every opportunity to allow yourself to explore what they are signaling to you and to feel them in depth, but don’t stop yourself from facing the truth: Feelings aren’t always facts. It may be time to fix your feelings and...

Link Love #007

Link Love #007

Something to read: What if you could live every version of life possible? In The Midnight Library by Matt Haig, there’s a library that contains an infinite number of books, each one the story of another version of reality. This heartwarming fantasy...

Wellness Tip: Write down your achievements

Wellness Tip: Write down your achievements

Give yourself credit for the things you've achieved this year/month/week. Don't be critical of yourself without realizing how far you've come. Taking the time to reflect on the past can make you aware of your progress and have the potential to increase your happiness,...

Link Love #006

Link Love #006

Something to read: With the world returning to this new normal, I’ve been having a bit of anxiety about being the social butterfly I was before the pandemic. This article offers some practical tips on dealing with that social anxiety.  A podcast to listen to: I’ve...

5 Useful Tips to Maintain the Journaling Habit

5 Useful Tips to Maintain the Journaling Habit

It’s hard to stick to habits that support your growth as an individual. It takes the average person 66 days to seriously adopt a new behavior. So don’t beat yourself up if you’ve already tried to start a journal, but it didn’t quite go as expected. Here are a few ways...

Link Love #005

Link Love #005

Something to read: This article details Bruce Lee’s profound philosophy of life. Growing up a martial arts fanatic and being a black belt in TaKwondo, this has extra special meaning for me. But the part that resonates is being like water and embracing the obstacle...

Wellness Tip: Change your scenery

Wellness Tip: Change your scenery

Plan a trip somewhere far away from your everyday life, preferably in nature, where you'll have the space to rest and rejuvenate yourself. If the time off or funds are not possible, plan a day trip to the next city or small town. A small break from your usual...

Link Love: #004

Link Love: #004

Something to read: There are very few things I memorize in the present day, but in my youth memorizing song lyrics and speeches was a passion. I enjoyed this article about the beauty of planting passages in your memory. Something to watch: The Ultimatum on Netflix is...

Sometimes you’re going to have to quit

Sometimes you’re going to have to quit

Sometimes you’re going to have to quit. Or change directionOr change the scopeOr change your expectations ...and that’s okay. Not everything is meant to work out.But that doesn’t mean you’re giving up. Maybe you’re just heading towards a dream that works better for...

NFTs explained in very simple language

NFTs explained in very simple language

What is an NFT?  Simply put, an NFT is a collectible digital asset traded over the internet. Think of it as a digital trading card.  NFT stands for non-fungible token.  And yes, fungible is a gross word. But essentially it means that the digital...