sometimes you can just let things be.

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Sometimes, you can just let things be.
You don’t need to push for answers.
You don’t need to create the perfect moment.
Just let it all unfold, as it’s meant to.

You can’t know what they’re thinking.
You can’t know what you’re being spared from.
And there’s so much beyond your control.

Find peace in surrendering to where you are, right here.

And if action feels necessary, reflect.
Look at things through a new lens.
Let curiosity guide you through the lesson hidden in this moment.

The simplest thing—and also the hardest—is allowing yourself to be present.

Not caught in the past, not pulled into the future.

Just living in this moment.

		
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