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…an artist smiles

I used to crave speed. I wanted immediate results. 

Too afraid to slow down and just think.

Now? I’m embracing stillness.

Long walks. Stopping the scroll. Finding space to be.

That’s why SoCurious greeting cards matter. Unlike a text, a handwritten note is real. It’s lasting. Thoughtful. Personal.

September’s goal was 100 cards sold. We hit 132. Plus a handful of Joy Bombs affirmation decks. Proof that sometimes, slowing down helps you move forward.

Every time you purchase a card, an artist smiles. That artist is me. 

5 Things I’m Learning Living on This Chaotic Planet

1. Control is an illusion.


No matter how much we plan, the universe always throws curveballs. The key isn’t to control everything—it’s to adapt and flow with the chaos. Let go a little, it’s oddly liberating.

2. Smiling through the madness helps.


Sometimes everything feels like it’s on fire, but a smile, even a forced one, can shift the energy. It doesn’t fix the chaos, but it lightens the load and gives you a second to breathe.

3. Perfection is overrated.


Progress beats perfection every time. Besides, the messy parts are where the real magic happens.

4. Uncertainty is a daily companion.


You never truly know what’s coming next. Instead of fearing it, I’m learning to embrace the unpredictability. Maybe the unknown isn’t something to dread, but an invitation to discover something new.

5. Small wins matter.


When life feels like a whirlwind, the little victories—like getting out of bed or remembering to drink water—deserve to be celebrated. They’re proof that, even in chaos, we’re still moving forward.

It’s a wild ride, but the more I lean into the chaos, the more I realize it’s where growth, joy, and the unexpected brilliance of life can be found.

If you need help managing the chaos, I think The Reset Workbook could help. 

Here’s a customer review: “This book is a wonderful tool for all people regardless of where they are in their personal journey… it introduces an active practice of reflection… it’s beautiful down to the last well-kerned letter.” – D from Amazon

when intuition speaks

Something to ponder: What is one thing you’ve been waiting to do? What’s stopping you from taking action now?

October Classified Ads

SoCurious Classifieds 

Here’s what’s happening in the community this month

1. 

Postcards to voters: I design supplies, but you can get started w/ basics you already have. Join us!

2.

10 Self-Love Letters for Tough Days offers personalized letters to boost your spirits, remind you of your worth, and guide you through tough times with love, joy, and self-compassion!

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Journal writing is a powerful tool for self-care, self-expression, self-discovery, and healing. If you are new to journaling, advanced, or somewhere in between, this self-paced guide is an invitation to explore what self-care looks and feels like in your life from the inside out.

you always have permission to pivot

Every day, you get to choose who you want to become. I’ve said it before—change is tough.

But it’s only tough because you have to keep showing up, day after day, as the person you’re aiming to be.

But here’s the good news: I believe in you so wholeheartedly. Keep growing.

stamp of approval

You’ve been waiting, literally holding your breath for a stamp of external approval.

But here’s the truth:

Their green light was never the key to your joy.

You don’t need their permission

to take up space

to shine

to be the main character

to be the masterpiece

Because even if you don’t believe it yet, you already are.

Turns out, the only approval you needed was your own.

Introducing SoCurious Classified Ads

Classified Ads are officially open in the SoCurious newsletter! 🎉

Got something to share with 6,000 thoughtful, creative souls?
Now’s your chance.

Whether it’s a product, a project, or just a message from the heart—this space is yours. Let’s build something beautiful, together.

There are 5 spots available per issue and they’re only $25 (for now). 

Apply now. 

(I’m reviewing the submissions because its really important to me that the ads are a good fit)

Here’s a framework for letting it go (whatever “it” is)

1. Feel it fully. Name the emotion: “I am feeling ____.” Let it rise and intensify—don’t try to tame it. But be careful not to project it onto someone else.

2. Rest. Give yourself space to pause.

3. Process the emotion. Write, cry, talk it out, move, listen to music that resonates. Clean your space, nourish your body—anything that helps release it.

4. Gain perspective. Once the intensity fades, reflect. What did this teach you about your needs? How can you adjust to feel safe moving forward?

5. Own your role—without shame. If it’s a random event, great—let it go. If it’s a pattern, notice it without judgment. There’s no shame in repeating lessons until you’re ready to grow. Being human is really hard.

6. Acknowledge your humanity. Embrace every imperfect part of you—this is self-love. It’s not about changing, but accepting the parts we often want to hide.

7. Acknowledge their humanity. The person who hurt you is playing out their own story. What they did was about them, not you.

8. Forgive yourself. 

9. Forgive them.

10. Seek forgiveness—internally or directly. Ask for forgiveness, even if only in your mind.

11. Reclaim your power. Where have you given away your story—to societal expectations, family, friends, or the person who hurt you? Take back control of your life.

12. Rewrite your story. “I was ____, but now I am ____, and I’m grateful for the change.”

13. Create a ritual. Memorialize your progress—whether it’s a bath where you watch the emotions drain away, or something else meaningful to you.

14. Repeat as needed. Start again whenever new realizations emerge.

This is your journey—feel free to remix this framework to work for your individual brain. There’s no right or wrong, just what works for your unique brain.