My growth isn’t up for debate

Finding Your Joy Tip No. 001

Some people don’t misunderstand you.

They understand you just fine… they just don’t like that you’ve changed.

That’s their problem, not yours.

Your joy requires evolution.

Keep growing, keep shining.

And the right people will adjust.

Small Business Diaries: My 2025 Goals as a Creative Entrepreneur

I spent years building my creative career, and then… poof. Everything fell apart. So, I did what any rational person would do—I completely started over. 

New business, new mindset, new… everything. 

This video is a deep dive into what happened, what I’ve learned, and my goals for the future. 

In November 2024, I hit a low point. 

Overwhelmed by the election results, I turned to social media for comfort, only to feel worse. 

So I cried. Played Sudoku. And then I did something that changed everything—I wrote.

I sent out an email to share hope and resilience. 

Week after week, I kept writing. Sharing more content on Instagram and Threads—content that felt raw, real, and unapologetically me.

This mission led to my first art experience, Joy is the Revolution, which sparked something deeper.

And now, in 2025, I’m doubling down as the new Mr. Rogers.

I’m building SoCurious into a creative studio committed to doing meaningful, intentional good. 

Here are my 2025 goals as a creative entrepreneur

1. Long-form joy on YouTube

Goal: 10 videos by March (two are already live!).

Why? Because I’m a teacher at heart, and I want to share my gifts with a wider audience—for free.

2. Inspiring mornings on social media

In February, I’m launching the Good Morning Sunshine Show, a short-form video series inspired by my book, The Reset Workbook.

Why? Social media can be dark, but it’s also a daily ritual for so many. I want to spread light where it’s needed most.

3. New joyful products in the SoCurious shop

I’m rolling out three new product ideas this quarter, starting with the next iteration of Joy Bombs—featuring my art, affirmations, and reflection prompts. The sample deck is done, and I’m obsessed!

Why? Because personal growth should be fun, accessible, and a little bit magical.

4. Empowering creators through the Creative Reset community.

Helping 47* creative humans turn their dreams into tangible reality through a 6-week coaching program. Think of it as a college course: custom curriculum, assignments, feedback, and accountability.

Why? Because the world needs more people stepping out of fear and into their true callings.

* The number 47 is intentional AF

5. Launch consulting and Creative Director on Demand.

Since leaving my toxic ad job, I’ve been working with small businesses and nonprofits to bring their ideas to life—offering creative strategy, actionable plans, and creative direction on demand.

Why? Because words change hearts and minds. And honestly? I miss flexing that muscle.

Here’s where you come in. Introducing the SoCurious Board of Directors.

To bring this vision to life, I’m inviting you to join the SoCurious Board of Directors—a curious community to hold me accountable, guide my work, and help shape a for-profit business that does good in the world.

Here’s what membership looks like:

$99 for 3 months. No recurring fees.

  • Early access to product launches and 15% off in the shop.
  • Monthly progress updates + opportunities to give feedback.
  • A treasure trove of digital goodies including, the podcast archive, the 90 Day Reset course, and some fun digital downloads
  • The best part? A snail mail package every month for 3 months:
    • A heartfelt, inspirational letter from me.
    • 10 random, small-batch Joy Bombs (new designs every month!).

If this resonates, join the joy revolution. 

Or, if you’re moved to invest in this mission on a larger scale, let’s connect. You can schedule a meeting with me here.

I’ll leave you with this thought:

There’s no perfect way to handle uncertainty.

No secret formula.

Just trust that you’ve made it this far, and you’ll keep making it.

Someone reading this has the power to sow a meaningful seed in this mission. Someone reading this has an idea that could help grow this vision. Someone reading this wants to help me build SoCurious. If that’s you, I can’t wait to connect.

Here’s why you’re not reaching your goals (and how to fix that)

Here’s a harsh truth: You’re probably not reaching your goals, and there’s a reason why. 

It’s not because you’re lazy or unmotivated. 

It’s because you need a system that works for your unique brain.

Here are 3 planning strategies that ACTUALLY worked for me—no rigid calendars, no need to purchase a stack of magazines and Mod podge. Just practical, fun, and personal techniques.

But first, let me explain why you might be hitting roadblocks. 

Big, abstract goals make progress feel impossible. That’s where most of us get stuck.

The solution? Think SMALL. Not in a way that limits you, but in a way that feels manageable, realistic, and flexible. That’s why I like to plan for 3 months at a time. 

Your life is always changing, so your goals should adapt too.

1. The Vision Board (With Words, Not Pictures)

Forget Pinterest-perfect vision boards covered in glossy pics of dream vacations and mansions. Those rarely move us.

Instead, create a vision board with WORDS. Handwrite phrases that describe how you want to feel when you achieve your goals.

Example:

Instead of a picture of a mansion, write: “I want to feel safe, grounded, and cozy in a home that I love.”

Words trigger emotions. Emotions fuel motivation. Focus on the feelings behind the goals—not just the shiny outcomes.

2. The Goal Bingo Card

This idea blew up on the internet this year and I think there’s a reason why. 

When you make your goals FUN by turning them into a game, you’re more likely to achieve them.

Create a bingo card with your goals as the 25 squares. 

Each square = a small, actionable task you can complete in about a month.

Here some examples that gamify your growth

  • Complete the Whole 30 challenge
  • Walk 300,000 steps in a month
  • Build a capsule wardrobe of 30 pieces of clothing
  • Read 2 fiction books by Black woman authors

When you get a bingo, celebrate! Small wins build momentum, and turning goals into a challenge keeps it light and exciting.

3. The Goal Wall (My Favorite this year)

Use a wall or board to make your goals tangible. Write each goal on a notecard and include:

  • What the goal is
  • WHY it matters to you
  • A breakdown of the big picture steps to achieve it

Here’s an example:

Goal: Move to a new city
Why it matters: “I’m ready for a fresh start and new adventure.”
Steps:

  • Pick a city
  • Save moving money
  • Find an apartment

Seeing your progress every day is a powerful reminder that your goals aren’t just dreams—they’re actionable.

Here’s why you should rethink the way you plan your goals.

Small wins = BIG momentum. By focusing on short-term, bite-sized plans, you set yourself up for consistent success.

The secret is building habits and motivation with wins every single day.

Your Challenge: Pick one:

  • The word-based vision board
  • The gamified bingo card
  • The tactile goal wall

Then try it for the next 3 months and see if its more successful than the vision board you made in 2024. 

Let me know which one speaks to you and how it goes.

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